Thursday, December 5, 2013

Is It Love or Lust?

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Is It Love or Lust?


  1. i met this man at the end of my 3 months in a city where i studied my post graduate. he is doing his PhD. we get along together. he is a very busy person. he is busy with his studying and his business every weekend. at first i was just trying to get to know him and i did not really like him. but he is okay to go with me until now. I finally fell in love with him. and the more i know him, the more i love him. He does respect me so much. never tried to touched me in a rude way. and what i have never had the lust or even him. He never refused to go out with me. What I love about him is the way he treats me is very different, He doesn't try to kiss me, but he hugs me instead. he gave me his time. it's just 3months, I keep praying since i knew him. And I realise, that he helps me to stand on my problems and he just could make me closer to God and be a better person. I said that I love him for twice, but he said that he is not looking for a relationship at this moment...but the way he treats me does show that he cares about me.. i'm still going out with him though it's only once in 2 weeks, but always be a precious moment...and we just getting know each other more and more...
    I'm leaving this country in 2 weeks time... I feel like I ve found my man...but i have to leave soon.. :'(

    1. Hi,

      Thank you for sharing your story. One thing I have noticed and you should to, is that you mentioned that he said "he is not looking for a relationship at the moment". As much as you may not want to, and you said you love him, but you have to accept that he is not ready for a relationship. You can't make him change his decision, but you have to accept his wishes at the moment. Now do you want to wait for when he's ready? But wait for how long? I don't think that would be fair to you to wait, especially with the fact that you will be leaving the country where he is. This is just my opinion, so don't hold it against me. But you have to do what's best for you.

  2. Wow I love this article and its so true...God bless you